What
is premarital
counseling?
Premarital counseling is a
form of instruction that aids couples in preparing for marriage. Even today,
most of our people are unaware of the importance and advantages of relationship education and
merely believe that they are not required to attend premarital counseling. According to Dr.(Prof) R K
Suri, leading marriage counsellor of India, “the premarital
counseling session’s main objective is to help the
soon-to-wed partner become better prepared for forming a healthy, happy relationship
because marriage is, of course, a milestone in our lives”. The
majority of the time, it is carried out under the direction of relationship
experts, a licensed
therapist, or a professional counselor who
can assess the relationship objectively.
Couples that
have premarital counseling are
better able to know each other and themselves. A couple’s intimacy can be
fostered by it. Couples can now respond as opposed to just responding. Along
with problem-solving abilities, it improves communication skills. Relationship
education can assist you in resolving conflicts and wisely adjusting your
expectations. It promotes greater financial and money management.
A smart,
responsible strategy to ensure your love is through premarital therapy. You
offer yourself this as a lifetime gift of self-care. A few of the bonding
advantages of premarital therapy
include knowing how to handle disputes or disagreements, handling the needs and
responsibilities of family life, and facing challenges head-on. Nowadays,
the vast majority of people, regardless of their religious affiliations, are looking
for premarital counseling that
can highlight a couple’s similarities and contrasts in order to create a
stable, healthy, and prosperous happily ever after story. Premarital
counseling’s primary advantage is that you can
choose between open-ended discussions on
any subject and general or private or personalized sessions, depending on
your needs.
For
premarital
counseling,
what will be covered?
You will talk
about a lot of subjects in your first session of premarital therapy. Do
not anticipate, however, that you will resolve all of your concerns at your
first appointment. Conversations will take place, but it will take a few
meetings before any quantifiable, high-quality progress is accomplished. The
following Interpersonal Method concepts will be addressed and discussed between
the couple and their therapist over the course of several appointments:
- Take your
partner’s advice - Expressing your
emotions - Developing a
love map - Showing
compassion towards your partner - Using active listening
techniques - Create rituals
to encourage connectedness. - Talk about
topics that come up
You will also
take the time to discuss other relationships in your life during the course
of the sessions. Extenuating conditions and scenarios can arise in your current
connection with your significant other and affect it negatively.
Benefits
of Premarital
counseling
Premarital
therapy has a variety of benefits, including:
1.Conflict
Management: It helps
develop and strengthen conflict resolution skills – A healthy marriage requires
effective conflict resolution. Couples can learn how to recognize possible
problems and how to establish the strategies needed to win difficult battles in
premarital counseling.
2. Early issue
detection – Most marriages are broken by conflicting
expectations. Marriage counseling
helps couples establish and communicate their expectations early on. The counselor can
assist the couple to find strategies for adjusting to their differences if
they have different expectations.
3. Helps couples
prevent unhealthy dislikes – when couples think their relationship
has broken apart, it is typically because they have allowed resentment to
fester. Happiness is toxic to hatred, and in prenuptial counseling,
couples learn how to protect themselves from this emotional poison.
4. Reduces worries
about the marriage’s survival – A couple thinking about
getting married could be worried because statistics show that marriages end
every day. Premarital counseling enables a couple to identify their
relationship-related worries and address them.
Every
relationship has its weak points, so giving yourself the tools to work through
disagreements, communicate effectively, and maintain a connection will enhance
both the quality of your relationship and your life. Don’t postpone wedding
preparation if you’re in a long-term relationship but find that you fight more
or have conflicts more regularly. A Relationship Counselor is a
certified psychotherapist who offers couples a secure setting in which to
communicate and work through issues. Finding a reputable marital counseling
resource can be very beneficial for any relationship. TalktoAngel is the leading
marriage counseling platform in India and the Asia
Pacific for NRI/PIOs to help with premarital counselling, nuptial counselling,
and post-marriage counselling.
To
get the most out of your time, keep in mind that you will receive more out of
your sessions to join and individually if you put more into them. Premarital counseling improves communication,
teaches problem-solving, premarital counseling helps you learn preferences, and
addresses expectations, and premarital counseling gets
intimate and helps you focus on maintaining and premarital counseling teaches
decision-making skills, it compares beliefs, morals, and values.
Every
relationship has its weak points, so giving yourself the tools to work through
disagreements, communicate effectively, and maintain a connection will enhance
both the quality of your relationship and your life. With premarital counseling and Couple Counseling from
ours, you may start your journey off successfully so that you can live happily
ever after. Pre-marital counseling and marriage counseling
sessions would be very effective for relationships.
If you would
like to learn more about your conflicts in relationships and want to live happily
after marriage, seeking pre-marital consultation for relationship issues with
the Best Clinical
Psychologists or Psychologist will
help you to understand your emotions, thoughts, and behavior and enable
you to better understand your relationship challenges, anxiety, stress, and
healthy relationship skills. You can also meet in the clinic with the best clinical
psychologists & relationship coaches at Psychowellness
Center, a multi-location clinic at Janakpuri, Dwarka, Vasant Vihar, Gurgaon,
NOIDA, Faridabad, and Delhi NCR.
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Contributed
By:– Dr (Prof) R K Suri Clinical Psychologist & Relationship Coach & Ms. Aditi Bharadwaj